Sadly most therapists don't believe in MLC. I think you know where the discussion is likely to lead were you to have it. All you can do at this point is wait it out, work on yourself, and try to keep things calm for your S. Limerence does come to an end and you can see what you have at that point.
Journaling is helpful. Mine has been in a lot more contact while with OW2 and has been much nicer. Not sure why.
