WF!!!!!!! How are you old friend? I just got back on here recently myself, good to see you!
Originally Posted By: woundedfool
I don't frequent or contribute to the forum as much as I used to. But I've been divorced since late 2013. I fully immersed myself into DB and MWD's way of thinking. It was amazing how many things she advocates are 100% on the money! The things I learned I still use in most all aspects of my life, and they have served me very well.
Well said! I recently posted in another thread that I used DB principals with my GF, my XW, my kids and even coworkers. There's may aspects of DB'ing that have universal application.
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About 2 months back, out of the clear blue on our former wedding anniversary I received a text from ex wife, citing our marriage vows and telling me how sorry she was for failing at our marriage.
I responded with a polite: Thank you, wish you the best etc.
Great response!
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Then yesterday (fathers day) I get a detailed email from her that felt about as contrite as I have ever heard her. Telling me how it was all her fault, how she wished she had tried, how every decision she has made since her walking away was wrong. The gist of the letter was asking for forgiveness, which I did forgive her quite some time ago.
Interesting. Well she has certainly had ample time to do her soul-searching and find herself, and it sounds like she may have and is finally owning her part in it. Good on you for forgiving her. Hard to say if this is also a temperature check on her part to see if you're still interested, but it -might- be. What are your thoughts on that, if she is indeed showing interest?
