I just posted that time and distance really change perspective, I've seen my "feelings" towards my WW really change in the 6 months since we separated. I can only imagine what a few years would do.

I'm sure that hearing that from her is a shock to the system, something you probably longed for when the wounds were fresh, but now that you've moved on and you think about it with a level head, it's got to be difficult to decide if you even want to open that conversation.

question on your signature, did she really give you the ILYBNILWY speech the day after she filed for D?


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized