Hi Cadet, All

"SO how long is "eventually" and "before it is too late"?

Previous post - (3 - 36 months) and what I mean by too late is that I will have moved on to another R.

"Great point. Mark, even if your strategy is to outlast limerence she's got to learn to miss you. Do you think that is happening?"

No but again it's all about the limerence, is she still in phase 1 - infatuation - only been 7 months (so she says)? doesn't matter if I was Romeo she would still not see me yet... This is not about me so much it's about her working through the stages, realising his faults eventually and then remembering that other person who she could always talk to in a safe way and due to him working on their M issues and his P.I.E.S isn't all that bad after all.

Again no guarantee's

I thank you all for continuing to look out for me and just having this interaction is helping and long may it continue.

Thank you all again.

Mark.


DR'ing started March 2017

Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".