It is always such a joy to read your posts. Your way with words and imagery is quite magical. I have been wondering what Bubbles was up to these days. It sounds like she still isn't a romantic relationship for him, is she a second mother?

Sounds like he is trying to "learn" your new home and see how he feels there.

I'm curious that he isn't closer to your children. Seems like he is digging into himself and I understood that the reconnection with the kids normally happens first. In your case it seems like he is trying to make a connection with your house and with you.

I think your story is such a great one to give people hope. Hope that divorce isn't the end. Hope that you don't have to be nasty and bitter and can remain friendly and supportive during the process. And hope that no matter how things out we LBS can really make a wonderful life for ourselves. Thank you for sharing your hope today.