Still hanging in there. W had one minor slip but seems to be sticking to her promise not to go beyond penpal friendship with her celeb crush. I have heard very little talk about her being spied on. Life has been surprisingly good this past few months. we are getting along and have had some great times. She has had some new successes with her painting business and this has definitely lightened her mood as well.

She still will not wear our ring or acknowledge that we are married and we still do not have sex. I do not like this situation but I am closer to real acceptance than I have been anytime before now. I'm feeling like there is really nothing I can do at this point but keep waiting and hope that she will want to be married to me again.

Tired but hanging in there. Is there anything helpful that someone in my position can do? Is there any way to encourage this to move forward without pressuring her?