This is happening because you are allowing it. You put yourself in a position where they easily cross your boundaries. She did not destroy what you building with GF. You put yourself right in that position. I get why you did it, but this is the outcome.
Yeah, I can't really blame anyone else for my weak (GROSS understatement) boundaries. They can't do anything to me that I don't let them do. I just keep letting them. I CAN blame them for wanting to break me, though.
Originally Posted By: Ginger1
Does she wants kids? Are you ready to have more kids years from now?
She'd have them with the right person. So would I. I have no fear of children. I always wanted more than one. I'll be 43 in a week and a half, and that's intimidating, but I still want that. I have every belief that both of us would have checked the "right person" box for each other.
