Again whilst I have to experience these meetings I can use them to my advantage by showing her what she's given up.
1. A great father - the boys and I are always interacting in a positive way. 2. A friend - paramount to a good relationship. 3. A safe place - if and when her A goes south where will she more likely go? If she needs a shoulder to cry on is she likely to go to someone unknown? 4. A better me - not for HER but for me I'm getting better and better without her and as this thing evolves so do I.
Just curious, do you really believe she has given up any of the 4 things you listed above?
Great point. Mark, even if your strategy is to outlast limerence she's got to learn to miss you. Do you think that is happening?
