Now that the separation is inevitable I will be updating my progress as things unfold.
06-19-2017:
Originally Posted By: Bhuda1
Separation is inevitable.
Perhaps not
You both sound very, very stuck. What do YOU want? Surely not another year of this misery. I think Sandi is right, time for an R talk. But before you do that, maybe list what you think the bullet points of that talk should be and post them here for feedback.
Also it would be helpful if you could talk about what has or has not changed since your last update a year ago. What does your M look like? Are y'all still sleeping in the same bed? Are you basically living like H and W except for your W saying she wants out?