Thanks again AnotherStander I've spent some time reading through some detachment posts as I think that's what I have to do. The weekend away may or may not happen but it's over a week away so deal with it if and when it happens. I know I can come here, my kids will be with me and I will be surrounded by love from amazing friends. As you say one foot in foot in front of the other and one hour at a time :-)


Me 46 H 39
M 11 T 14
S 10 DO 8
ILYBNILWY 11.06.17
Separate rooms 11.06.17
ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17
Kicked H out 23.6.17
H came home 20.8.17



Tomorrow is another day