Thank you AnotherStander your timing is impeccable I am having a particularly tough day today. The weekend away is playing on my mind massively and he's back at work and so is she.

Added to this my work situation has been absolutely awful for a while now and the night he BD'd I was going to discuss with H me quitting the following day. Now I feel trapped not because I have to stay totally for financial reasons but it's a massive step given the situation and it gives me routine each day, on the flip side it makes me even more miserable.


Me 46 H 39
M 11 T 14
S 10 DO 8
ILYBNILWY 11.06.17
Separate rooms 11.06.17
ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17
Kicked H out 23.6.17
H came home 20.8.17



Tomorrow is another day