Oooofff... more drama in the picture perfect la-la land..
Son has a girlfriend who spent a couple of weeks with ex-h' s and OW. The level of stress and living on edge is totally unbeleivable.. Both son and girlfriend broke down this week- end. This morning, son lost it. He gave me his phone for me to read the texts exchange. Son, while crying said:" mom, i can' t deal with this anymore. I am always on edge, angry, pissed off, impatient... i am becoming him and I DON' T WANT TO!!!!
He was shaking like a leaf and his girlfriend' s eyes were teary as she tryed to show him support.
Ex- h is pushing him away and emotionally abusing him. It brought back MY MEMORIES OF PAST FEELING and i got very internally angry. After attending to son with everyone present, ( son' s gf, 2 of my daughters, son-in-law and a friend of his ) daughter 21 had a good talk with son and i went outside for a cigarette.
I usually stay out of it but not today. Seeing son under so much pressure got me seriously concerned. I texted ex- h asking him to please leave son alone for the rest of the day and spend time with D16 who agreed to spend the week- end with him. A decision she regrets.
Anyway.. ex- h backed off..
Son' s girlfriend talk alot about all the crap that goes on at ex- h' s house.. OW daughter will be moving out in a couple of weeks.. son and girlfriend will be living with me until August.. ( their appartement will be available august 1st for College. ) ex- h and OW picked at eachother all week- end and still drink daily. 24-7..
