Hello ... some update... so I got the kids and they are having great time. Seeing their friends, shopping, outdoor activities and registered for a camp in July... so lots of fun . Unfortunately today is Father's Day and well although he does not have father day at his city he did not contact them for more than 3 weeks. Well for me 2 as he sent the authorization for travel. I spoke to my mom and although they are so surprised with his passiveness she thinks time to request for divorce ... I just need to prepare the kids. And send him my request only and take it from there. I completely agree.. if I couldnot fux it for last 3 years then I guess I just need to rap and give up. Well although I was planning not to contact but I decided why not ... I don't care what he thinks as I know where I am heading nothing to fix no more.. so I sent him a ms" today here us Father's Day ... I miss mine as I am sure you might miss yours... I wonder if my kids miss theirs" my kids know it is Canada day but they did not initiate contact with him and he rarely contact unless they do. Yesterday my elder was asking about where would she be studying her high school ... and whether we will be moving ever with him.. my uncertainly must have affected them .. time to fix that and make things clear I suppose.
M 45 H 45 D1 12 D2 9 BD 04/14 Living two different state Not officially separated
