That's the right attitude to have. My W is stubborn as hell. But several times throughout the week will tell me how good that I am looking. Says that she can tell that I am doing better by going out more without her. And that weight loss, shaving the beard into a goatee and even cutting my hair like back in the early days of our MR has shaved about six years in the looks department.
And if your W isn't impressed, then someone else will be. But just take care of yourself. Because no one else will treat you the way you should be treated like yourself.
