So what do I do besides not contact him.

Ill respond when he contacts about the boys but when he comes to the house is it best if I leave? I had thought this week I would leave for the duration of his stay and come back when he's ready to leave.

I really think there's OW at his work complicating things as well.

I do not want a D. I don't want this M though. I don't want this version of us. I'm just afraid it's too far gone. He's looking at buying a house. So I guess I have 30 days because that's probably about how long it will take him to get everything together to do just that.


M 31 H 34
S 6 S 9
BD 2/14 Piecing 8/14