Thanks Sotto. You sound so grounded! You're right, I have been here a looong time. I spent the first year and a half trying to change his mind, then four years getting used to being on my own and a single parent, then a year fighting with him for a fair settlement... with divorce papers signed this March. Meeting guys was not on the radar at all until the D papers were signed. So it is pretty new to me even though most of my other db buddies moved along a lot sooner than me.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
