HaWho, congratulations on your son's graduation! I hope the transition to high school will go smoothly for him. It is probably another important event in your H's MLC journey. Will see how well he will be able to handle it, having a son in high school.
There are definitely some interesting developments with your H. And he wants you to come on the trip... I agree with roist, do what is best for you, whether you decide to go on the trip or not.
There are some small "development" in my sitch, in regards to H doing different things compared to the previous years. But, I think I'm somewhat removed from the whole thing by now, so I don't really pay much attention. Maybe I should, ha.
You keep amaze me with your patience and insights into your H's behavior. Take care of yoursef!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state