Coconut I hear ya. That wouldn't have been a honest answer for me at the time. But ya know this has been such a drain. These last 2-3 weeks we talked twice. It's allowed me to cool down alot. Since I was chasing so much and decided to stop, I honestly have no idea what to even talk about now with her. You can only talk about the weather, gym and work so much. Been a good thing though, allowing me to put M aside and work through my issues.


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old