Is it Midlife Crisis, Walkaway Spouse or the End?

[Gordie]

SJS,

I have a live in. I tried a lot of taking early and learned that it didn't do any good. Your re read the books. What can you do to try something new? You can only control you. Your kids are older and out of the house, right? So maybe you need to live more independently. Do what you want when you want. Be positive and find that place of contentment no matter your circumstances or marital status. Surprise yourself by trying new things. If you are waiting forn your w to change her ways, it may take a very long time so you need to live the life you want to live without her even if you are still technically under the same roof. If you don't like your current financial set up then you can try to change that amicably but if that's not possible then you need a L and a separation agreement. W and aI divided out finances earlier this year and it's actually made things better between us.