Just want to reiterate that his anger is all on him. He has free will, as we all do. But there are consequences to every decision we make. Let the legal system run its course. And oi, his poor lawyer.

Try to see the humor in it as it does sound like he's having a temper tantrum over there...

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced