I suppose I'm quite stubborn in the fact that I stick to what I feel is working in my situation. It can obviously be better and appreciate everyone's advice. I feel I'm falling down with regards to completely breaking away from WW but again in the UK views on stopping the mother of the children seeing them is highly frowned upon.
We have to work within these guidelines!
Today she is enjoying time with them and the AP/LO as much as I don't like the situation there's very little I can do. Again this needs to happen to allow the reality of their A hit home and move the limerence phases along.
With reality the fantasy lessens and the true self comes to the fore, they may choose to stick it out and make the most of it, one might look for another LO and start the cycle again or my WW could see that her M wasn't all that bad after all.
If that is the case I need to make sure that I am in the best position to work on the R process if she wants to work on the M.
It's hard on day's like this and need everybody's support to keep me motivated and moving forward.
Regards
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
