Limerence and My Situation

[Parkema]

Hi AnotherStander,

Thanks for your reply.

I feel the word "goals" and "plan" are part of what makes up the strategies.
"My goal is to reach that cat up a tree, my strategy is to use that ladder, I plan to do x,y and z"

I am no different in wanting to save my M it's just a word.

I don't care if she does see right through it I'm getting better each day by sticking to my strategies. By the way she is slooowly starting to notice... She is seeing someone who is GAL and investing less time in her. This is starting to make her take a little more notice but she is so far into phase 1 of linmerence it has very very little affect on her as I knew it would.

I am willing to give it time as I'm in no hurry to gain another R yet (that might never come) so win-win.

Can I ask do you believe in the limerent process?

All the best.

Mark.