Update.. This month marks the end of 8 years and the begining of 9th since bomb.. The end of the school year, father' s day and ex-h's birthday. This time of the year is always cahotic..
Earlier this week, while at work on a night shift, Son got rushed to the hospital with major chest pain and difficulty breathing. Once there, his heart rate was very high and his blood pressure, very low. They gave him a shot and everything went back to normal.they kept him for 3 hours and released him. He said his Energy drink was the cause. To me, this sounds like a panic attack.
I am aware son and ex- h had a heart to heart talk about not spending time together, now and in the past. Tonight, Son comes home and ended me his phone.. text echange beetwen him and ex-h from this afternoon.. ex-h is pratiquely kicking him out.. son will be in College this August.. why is he doing this to him now? Ex-h' s reason? Because son bought himself a new car and he is giving the other one to his sister. Because he is too independant. Ex-h' s told son that if he wants to be an adult, he has to go and be one.. everything i read was so ignorant and superficial but once again, son felt hurt and rejected.
I asked son: since he is edgy with you, he must be fighting with OW? It must be a matter of time before she leaves again? Answer: Yes... they have been fighting for awhile now.. Her son has moved out 3 years ago without any contact.. her daughter wants to move out this summer and move in with her grand- parents. Now Son is told to go... What a happy life????..
What they show the outside world and what is the truth are 2 very different pictures. When i see these things, i am so glad i got out. I truely was in for life while thinking we were in a fase and things would get better as the kids got older but i was wrong.. ex- h has gotten worst. Full blown narcissist. Sad. Very sad..
