I'm sorry. He doesn't want to do those things with you now. I mean this in the nicest possible way, but it sounds like you are making yourself his doormat. Read some of Sandi's posts on WW. You don't nice these people back. All you are doing is letting him know that you will always be there waiting in the wings for him. He can't possible believe that you might actually be moving on with your life and be concerned about that. Please, for your sake, stop the pursuing behaviors, be mysterious, and work on finding a life that is independent of him.
