As a mother, I would follow my heart and protect my child. And sure as heck prepare financially.
I'm not sure that's Not DBing b/c we don't say "save your m, at all costs."
But again, don't let anyone (including me) urge you to do what will haunt you most later.
Maybe that's how to decide? Assume your options are both "wrong", which repercussions of the wrong choice would be harder to live with?
What are the realistic upsides to being "right" in choosing?
Oh, and don't forget, just b/c you get a divorce does not mean you cannot ever rebuild something. Couples do reconcile but it seems more frequent with couples who part ways for awhile and working on themselves before they can each heal enough to find their way back to each other.
Esther Perel has a TED Talk video on infidelity & surviving it, well worth listening to.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
