Is it Midlife Crisis, Walkaway Spouse or the End?

[peacetoday]

I also think boundaries are important
especially for us

the Mlcer will usually not follow any boundaries

you probably have tp decide if you want to continue living with her
maybe you can plan more outings on your own as well and not be home when she gets back
go away for a weekend ect

My XH used to get home at like 3 or 4 am many nights and then he started staying out all night
He did have OW and eventually M her

He moved out and it was best because watching him drop in at 4 am was difficult on me
once he left the energy in our home was better
but it is a tough call
some Mlcers will stay at home
I hear the chances of reconciliation are better but of course it is no guarantee

No easy answer
but try to take care of yourself
get a hobby..make a new friend..have fun
buy a new outfit
visit an old friend
volunteer