when he visited them one year, I asked his sister how XH handled his mothers death she said it was strange because he never acknowledged it or talked about her or attended any services
Ive heard sometimes tragedy can wake them up but Ive also heard if they haven't finished all the way through the tunnel they will again Relapse
unfortunately no easy out of this mess but thru it for all peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow