Right now you're in a honeymoon/hyper-bonding phase. You're so thrilled that she wants you and wants to keep the family together that you're completely disregarding her cheating. She slept with another man. You can't sweep that under the rug. I just want you to be prepared for the day when your joy over reconciling gets a jolt when rage rears its ugly head. At some point you're going to rage over her laying with OM. You need to be ready when that hits or bad things can happen. First is your acknowledgement that you know it's coming and to have a strategy for when it hits you. Other than seemingly overlooking that, you're doing well.
