25yearsmlc 10 yrs later I File D (part 4)

[25yearsmlc]

I agree Zues, but somehow your post makes me sad today

I got a letter from the life ins policy I've had on H since he was deployed. H canceled it.

Mind you, I pay for it, but h is the "owner". Why on earth would he do this? I cannot tell you how tempted I was to text him to ask what the hell his goal was.

"You literally want to make sure I get less when you die??"

Good grief...and yes I called USAA to make sure there was no mistake and in their notes it says 'COL was informed his w was paying the premiums, but insists on policy cancellation."

I did not contact him but only b/c my sisters talked me off the ledge. Plus (** And I DO RECOMMEND THIS)

then mentally I thought out each scenario and rabbit hole. They're right to have stopped me. It gets me nowhere and would so likely spiral and escalate...never mind.


There is no honorable explanation nor is there any chance h will slap his forehead and say "OMG I had no idea it was a lousy thing to do. I'll reverse that decision now!"


HOURS LATER I get an email from my L saying h wants to buy me out of spousal support. As in maybe settle...

2 thoughts...

first, if the life ins cancellation was a "Strategy" to corner me or pressure me in some way to settle soon, it achieves the exact opposite.

It just infuriates me AND

Second, given that I don't trust him, why on earth would I believe anything he offers?

He ignores court orders. He does things that certainly appear punitive. What's going to be new now?

Oh and his address changed so I guess he's living with OW and "Sharing expenses".

Great...not a great day but it's Friday so there's that.