No really, not doing too well with the contact thing! I am still not getting in touch with WW no texts, emails or calls but we still have regular face-to-face due to shared custody of the boys.
Again I never initiate any talks and allow her to be with the boys when they are with me, she will then come and talk. This is where my way of dealing with this kicks in and is well known by now.
Her A is as strong has ever and is the HARDEST part of all of this I need to keep in mind this sitch wasn't created over night and will not be solved over night. All I see is her very happy I know this could be just an act but more likely not and every time we are together she's not as happy! Go figure.
Keeping motivated is a challenge especially when I see her so happy but I have to believe in the limerence process and put her happiness down to the infatuation stage. Can this go on for ever? Well if it did would any of us be in our positions.. No.
I continue to be consistent and work on myself for myself, work on my P.I.E.S attraction whilst getting a life and she is noticing. Yesterday when she was at mine she said "you're looking good" (don't believe 100% of what they say) I said "thanks'" and left it at that, there is never any mention of the sitch or the A just civil conversation for about 10 minutes then she's gone.
I always remain cool, calm and controlled whilst being happy and contented, in a strange way I feel better about myself. The loneliness is subsiding but have one or two setbacks, the pictures of them together is lessening also. But I am finding it harder and harder to control when they do appear and depression kicks in slightly, when this happens I walk and think about my boys as this always happens when they're not with me!
I'm beginning to GAL more and it is being noticed, I had an interesting comment off the WW recently "you've a mark on your neck oh yes..." She was insinuating this was through contact with someone else obviously not not ready for that yet not for a long time and I mentioned it was not the case. I don't know what to make of this comment, easing of her guilt if I was?
Anyway father's day this coming Sunday and I have the boys with me we're going to enjoy some fun at a theme park without the WW I'm sure she'll be spending it with her AP/LO and his family no remorse at all from her but was totally expected.
Continue to persevere.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
