{{{Pax}}}
There were some ugly moments in my sitch too. I'm not sure why the lies and hatred - the revisionist history. I think they need it to justify their actions. I've wondered about integrity too.

My best advice is that this is a business transaction. You are closing down the company known as your marriage. Your husband is a business partner here.

Shut off your emotions to the best of your ability when you're dealing with divorce issues. Think long and hard about what you really want and what is and isn't important to you.

Know your opponent.

You can deal with the emotions of this after the fact. You're in a battle. Gird your loins. This is business, period.

Does any of this make sense?

xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver