Well the boys both asked H if he was coming back home toddler pay outchouse tomorrow he said we'll see. My 6 year old said you have to we're still a family

That's when H decided to leave.

I went outside to talk to him. He gave me a hug. I told him regardless of what's going to happen that I need his help. I have to finish school and I am not sleeping and need a break.

He said we need time apart. He's not making any promises he can't say if it's going to be good or bad. That he can't be here and talk about this all the time. He needs a break and maybe time apart will be good. I just told him I'm not talking about us. I'm talking about us as parents. I need your help with the kids. I'm not worried about anything but that. He said ok I'll think about coming back to the house. Then we parted ways.


I'm studying to be a health care provider. I am independtly seeing treating and prescribing to very complex ill patients. Something has to give.

I know it's not DB but for my mental sanity and my personal safety I need help. It is not my parents jobs to pick up the pieces and they already have a lot. He is unable to watch the kids because of the concert and didn't make other arrangements just told
Me tonight there's no option he's leaving and he can't watch them.


M 31 H 34
S 6 S 9
BD 2/14 Piecing 8/14