sometimes IN mLC nothing we do will make them turn around
Roist is right and you already know it right
We have to change for us certainly can't hurt the current R with wife either but we become who we want to be
I like the idea of setting boundaries I didn't .. I ignored any info that My xh was with Ow I don't think it would have mattered in my case..He M her but I think its important to stand ground with the MLCer
Keep playing piano I joined my sons music school to relearn guitar they have an adult program and rock band for adults it is healing and great fun
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