sometimes IN mLC nothing we do will make them turn around

Roist is right and you already know it right

We have to change for us
certainly can't hurt the current R with wife either but we become who we want to be

I like the idea of setting boundaries
I didn't ..
I ignored any info that My xh was with Ow
I don't think it would have mattered in my case..He M her
but I think its important to stand ground with the MLCer

Keep playing piano
I joined my sons music school to relearn guitar
they have an adult program and rock band for adults
it is healing and great fun


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow