She is working a lot because she's working at the same place. It's possible that she works less than she had been the past few months but they expect 60 hours from her minimum and she usually ends up with 80+ according to her family.
As for someone else, it's something that has been discussed by my counselor. She has a female boss that is a lesbian and they had what would qualify as an emotional affair. Any attempt to breach the subject was dismissed. I don't believe it's physical but it's factor regardless.
She seems to be avoiding anyone who questions her decisions. I have limited information though as I'm not actively asking around.
Yes, I did get that job. I'm nervous and excited for it. Leaving the kids I work with has been emotional on top of all this.
Together 7 years Married 3 Said she was taking long way home late January Left to get some space 2/19/17 BD 3/1/17 ILYB