During the conversation she talked about how it's been "hard on her too". That honestly pi@@ed me off. It's hard on her? She made the decision to leave, to take her ring off so quickly, to not give counseling a chance, to not give the relationship a couple months and see what changes can be tried. You don't get it both ways. You don't get to say how hard it is to leave but not give a real reason. You don't get to say how hard it is but when anyone suggests counseling you say you are "fine".
This sounds like it could have been written about my wife. There was someone else, with my wife. Just wondering whether that could be the missing reason here.
Originally Posted By: giftd
She's still avoiding her friends and family, working more than anything else.
Why is she avoiding them? Could she be ashamed of something? Do you know for a fact that she is working as much as she says she is?
Just thinking.. That's all. Glad to hear from you.
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.
