I think I may have read that early on, but it wasn't pertinent to me then. Thanks for the link. That did help. Not sure if I know how to handle my situation, but it helped with some questions.
Her apartment has been killing us financially and its hard to know how we could continue to live like this. Whether she is better yet or not, we are working on things so we don't have any plans currently to split finances. Not sure if that really matters as a dollar is a dollar whether it comes from one account or another, but it does make it harder to tell her no if she wants to move back. To clarify on that, she has not asked to move back yet...but that is a discussion that will come up in the coming weeks and her moving back is one of 2 options she can consider.
