LT,

Your strength to stay in a in-house separation astonishes me, the few months I spent in that situation were the worst months of my life. There is some relief that comes without seeing WW on a daily basis, but the quietness can be difficult at times. Having your D over will fix that when she's there.

My suggestion would be to really set your place up how you want, think man cave, it really helps to have your house set up to your liking, and makes it easier to make it feel like a home. I even put my small boat in my living room for awhile, because I could and I enjoyed sitting in it while watching tv and having it inside when I was doing modifications to it.. Make it someplace you enjoy being.

It will take awhile to start feeling at "home", but you will get there.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized