I don't know how but I am totally managing to separate him emotionally at the minute as I know I can't control his thoughts, feelings, etc. This is purely about his future security and financial security for him and our children.
He has 18 months to go in the Army and if her H gets wind of this he will inform them what is going on the implications of which for my H as the senior rank are incredibly serious, reduced rank, reduced pension or worse and I feel I need to protect him practically as he is clearly no thinking straight. My H as I know him is not there at the minute he's like an alien. Would you still way wait that long when the consequences are potentially so serious?
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
