Boston Dad in need of Help

[Teppo]

[quote=AnotherStander]

Regarding the MBR, I would tell your wife "I understand that you're involved with another man, and that you'd like a divorce. I'm not okay with being in an open marriage. Since you're the one that wants to leave, I'd like you to move out of the MBR and I plan to return to it beginning tonight."

How do you think that might change things?

If you do that, you're clearly not pursuing, begging or pleading right?

Acc

Acc,
Thanks again for your input. You and everyone else who has commented on my situation have been a big help.

So, if I reference her EA while asking her to leave the MBR, wouldn't that drive her further away? Instead, would it be better just to say, "Since you want to leave our family and get a divorce, I'd like you to move out of the MBR as I plan on returning to my bed tonight."?

Thanks