Just doing bank finances as I got paid today and discovered my H who is supposed to be at work is another city (our hometown 2 hours away).

I really need to discuss this with him as the OW's H has threatened to ruin my H's career if the A continues and I have to think about him, the kids and myself financially whether we are together or not. I understand why he is doing it, right now he is infatuated, totally believes she is the one and I am not challenging that but he is not thinking rationally. Is it OK to raise it in a non confrontational way. Suggestions on how to approach it please??


Me 46 H 39
M 11 T 14
S 10 DO 8
ILYBNILWY 11.06.17
Separate rooms 11.06.17
ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17
Kicked H out 23.6.17
H came home 20.8.17



Tomorrow is another day