My parents split when I was 18 and didn't talk for years. H saw their hostile relationship but then sees how they are now.

He told the boys he would see them tomorrow on the phone. I don't think I can do much until I get legal counsel regarding a schedule but I'm not sure what to do when he's here when I'm here. Last BD he wouldn't come around when I was here. This time it doesn't seem that's going to be a problem.

I probably will leave. I'm also going to text him Friday about childcare for Saturday. All my communication will be via text for documentation purposes.

My dad told me I should tell him he needs to take the baby overnight 2 nights a week

I just want to do what's going to help me stop feeling this way. I want to do whatever is going to help me have the best chance at him regretting this. I know it's all wishful thinking but that's what I want right now


M 31 H 34
S 6 S 9
BD 2/14 Piecing 8/14