it stated that both parties "MUST" attend court together once and affirm that the marriage is irreparable.. hmmm, starting thinking about standing up in court and saying that the M has failed and can't be saved was a little more than I could handle, and the tears flowed.
This is what i had to do. It was easy to be honest to get up there and say it. Still scar-ed me though. Like having a hole burned into your soul, i had to listen to her say she tried to make it work.
Like you i knew there was no way back, she was not interested, and even if she did shes not willing to do what it takes. She doesnt care enough about you or the R to do any lasting work.
Im not saying do it, you can just continue on as you are now until it gets there. It doesn't change your situation one bit.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
