talk to a counselor about how to tell the kids. I THINK it's supposed to be done together and later on they'll figure out what they figure out. Plus, I really do believe boys somehow emulate their dads unless they have a positive role model substituting for a bad one.
Maybe someday you and your h will make a different marriage or at least a good r
or maybe you'll meet a healthy man and commit to him. But yes, imo THIS m, is done. I totally believe that.
I know that hurts. Good God, I know...and I'm so sorry. I say this very carefully too, T0.
For now though, re the kids, - Don't play a game about making your h pay for his choices or trying to teach him a lesson -( even if you believe in that) this is about the kids. Somehow you have to present that they will be FINE and they will see both parents and both parents love them, etc
but as I said, talk to a child psychologist and get on the same page as your h.
For real.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
