Just went on FB to look at Ralphs photos of his kids and him. (Not worried about using his name now, given the situation).
A bunch of people are cursing at Ralph on his fb page.
ONE person posted a prayer for the kids, and the rest are condemning him. Telling him to burn in hell.
*AS, I don't think Ralph believed he'd be united with his ex in heaven because they'd be dead. That wasn't the plan b/c there was no plan.
I do hope God looks at all of our actions in life. I think Ralph snapped and then was overcome with despair and took his own life. Not insane but also not in his right mind.
His kids meant everything to him and if he thought any of it out, there's no way he'd have done this. He did not think this out. He would not take the primary caregiver away from his kids, especially his disabled son.
But why must people condemn him this way? He has family and friends who are being VERY quiet, understandably.
I just wanted to look at him & his kids again and now i have to see all this "rot in hell you coward!" crap.
Surreal. Painful. What are Ralphs family/ sisters feeling now?
I guess no one is allowed to mourn him publicly.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016