So I finally stopped being stubborn and went to IC. That guy was actually awesome and my insurance covers which is great. He specializes in MC so that was good. As many of you mentioned, me and W went to a general counselor for M counseling and it backfired. Big time. He was telling her to move back in, being pushy. That shot her right out the door.
His wife and my wife have the exact same backgrounds. Abandoned by parents bc of drugs. Sexually abused by random people mothers brought over. His MIL missed their child's birth bc in jail, my MIL missed our wedding bc of jail. I'm optimistic that this will do some good for me anyway. We talked about me being selfish in a good way. To stop being concerned with everything else and do something for me. We will scratch the surface next week.
I politely asked my friends to stop sending me updates. I don't have social media and they send me screenshots of W and APs latest adventures. W is in Mexico and she posted the flowers AP sent her in Mexico. Their relationship is exhausting with how much stuff they do. I hope she doesn't try to come back when they run out of money lol
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
