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I can't forgive him if he does this again...


Sweetheart, he is doing it again. Perhaps he has not packed up and moved his stuff, but he "is" and has been doing this ^^^.


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I asked him last night please to not leave our family.


How do you mean "don't leave our family"? As in moving out of the house?

My heart breaks for you. All I can tell you at this particular moment is those desparate pleas that are coming from your pain, only pushes him away. He will think you are trying to guilt him or whatever. Do you really want him there, knowing how he feels?

You are under an incredible amount of stress. Just not sleeping can be dangerous. Please don't become a statistic that has a breakdown from too much stress. I am concerned for you, ((TO)). It seems to me that having some physical space from him might help with your nerves, but what do I know? frown


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!