Originally Posted By: T0324
Train - so happy to hear from you. Was starting to worry about you

Hope all is well with you.

Do I just sit silent?


I just said hi when he came in and that's it.


T0

an hourly approach with a marriage and everything else, will not help you. First, you can't do it for ling (sorry, but that's just reality. FTR, not many women in your shoes could.

Second, he wants out. IDK why, but he is as clear as HE is willing to be.

I'm not saying he won't change his mind later

but you've also told him that if he leaves, he cannot come back...

if theres another OW, he cannot return.

If he lies again, etc.

And i think all 3 have happened in one form or another.

Can you just tell us here, What you can live with?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change