Originally Posted By: T0324
He is like two different people. He is like Jekyll and Hyde. His mom finally saw it on Saturday. Kissing me saying ily having a great time laughing and joking at bowling. Then the switch flips


I love him despite everything. I don't want to picture my life without him. I want the man he is capable of being

I understand.


I don't want my kids split up. I don't want to go through this with a newborn and working and grad school.


I get it.



I deserve the man he was to me before this.


yes, you do.

But that's not what is real right now. So what are you going to do?

Keep hoping it changes or diagraming sentences to organize the right words to say in the right way and then to ACT as if X and Y are blue and yellow and and and.....

He says he is done (& "I don't know" counts as the same at this point)

he plans to leave, he gave you a date, soon, he has made move out plans,

he has some sort of OW relationship going on, and won't own up to any of it in front of his mom...

but that's what is happening.
It $ucks and we know it and it is HARD to endure.

How can we help support you?



M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change