Yes things have moved rather quickly. I spent a good part of that time with pursuant behaviors and honestly still do but am working on backing off. I know part of her reasoning is she wants a financial separation in case I have another manic episode. My wife is type of person who will make a decision in her head and stick by it, then will readjust afterwards. I've always admired that----until now. I don't think there is any slowing of the train unfortunately. Thanks for your thoughtful comments.
