G, be careful to only own your part, ya know? Should you have maybe thought of those things? Maybe...hindsight, though...
The truth is that there are 27 years olds that would have loved what you and your daughter offered. So, there was no real way to know he wasnt one of them. I think that maybe he should have known whether he was.
Look, you both tried to see if it would work out. I would like to think his intentions were pure going in.
I am a real believer in things happening as they should and that all the trials are paths to growth. And sometimes those paths succk along the way. LOL!
We just do the best we can and when we know better we do better. You have learned here, G. So that next time, you will know to see that you both want the same things.
You are generous to a fault and loving beyond measure...it's why you hurt so deeply.Someone extraordinary and worthy will one day be very fortunate to be with you.
Congrats on going for the house. Be careful..and open to the possibilities.
